The quick answer is because I stopped looking for perfection. Perfection doesn’t exist. I mean the absolute perfection since it is subjective and not objective.
Something you find perfect, it will be not perfect for the other. Perfection is an opinion and everybody can think differently (thanks to God). However, you can be perfect for you. Since you are saying that you are giving the best of you, no matters what the condition are, you will be perfect for you.
This, you can control it. And this perfection will never be the same perfection of another person. So, give always the best of you and be perfect to you. This is the key. Once you think you are perfect because you are giving the best, your confidence will grow.
It’s also very important to be aware that you can be wrong or make mistakes. But, if you had given the best of yourself, you can accept that you are wrong sometimes and it is human to make mistakes.
This is the “true” consultant (mi idea of a consultant, an alpha consultant). You have to believe in yourself but also know when you’re wrong and recognize it. You will gain credibility for others and it feels good.
So:
– Stop looking to be perfect for other people and be perfect to you
– Give your best of yourself, be honest with yourself and be yourself
– And remember good enough is also a good result.