Blaming. Believing that it’s always someone else’s fault.
President fault, boss fault, partner fault, family fault, stop blaming other and focus on yourself. Everyone has the same president, same boss, why they don’t have the same issues? Because everyone is different. Focus on yourself and don’t let others absorb your energy. You are the only person who can make you feel better. So, take responsibility for your actions and stop blaming others.
Believing in successful people
“Success is simply when you achieve the quality of life you want for yourself”
It is not necessarily getting a lot of money, but it can be part of it, nor does it have to be something material. You define your own success and you can only be successful living the life that you choose as successful. The people you judge as successful people are because they add value to the lives of others. There are people who can benefit from the added value that you bring to them, such as your family, your friends or your coworkers.
Gossip
Usually the gossiping people are the least happy. Happy or successful people are not concerned with giving their opinion about the lives of others. He only focuses on himself and giving his best. He may have references to follow, but you have to know that each person you follow had a different journey to reach their goals.
Believing that you need other people to complete yourself.
It is one of the biggest problems in our society; the fact of being loved and loved by another person. Many people cannot work if they are not in a relationship with another person, they need it to go to the movies, restaurants, travel etc. If not, your life is incomplete. No one can ever complete you. You are in control of yourself, and nobody can control you. So, you cannot give that important key to someone else. You can continue to love, you can continue to enjoy and appreciate the company of others, but do not tie yourself to them. Let them be free and allow yourself to be free. You are that important.
Allow money control your decisions.
Let’s be clear, money is important to live. If you do something that you consider valuable to you, the money will come. But the people who are guided by money, those people who want more money for a better life, for them and their families to be happy. Why do you need this? There is only one final answer, you want it to be happy and have more affection. You think that by having more respect and success, you will win the love, respect and attention of people. But you don’t need money to be happy or have more affection.
The example of those parents who chase money for their children can be happy. But by chasing money they are not there for their children and watching them grow. And those parent-child moments are what make them happiest, being able to share that time with their parents. Children don’t worry about money.
Focus on something you like to do and that can give value to others.
Remember that you are that important and you deserve everything.